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5 Tips to Calmer Children

5 Tips to Calmer Children

More children are currently suffering from anxiety, or just finding it harder to unwind than usual.
The Place2be, the Children's Mental Health charity working in schools, have designated the first week of February to highlighting this.

Catherine Roche, chief executive of Place2Be, said:

“We believe no child should face mental health problems alone. We were already seeing an increase in issues before the pandemic and the subsequent isolation, disruption to routines, and fears about the future has all had a damaging impact for some children."                                             

Last week, 10 of the UK’s top experts in child health wrote an open letter to say that anxiety and depression are at “frightening levels” among children, but that there are some simple, day to day habits and additions that we can implement that can make a big difference.                                                                                          
 
  1. TALKING IT UP                                                                                                       Saying you know they might be feeling anxious without glossing over it, or trying to make it better is something that mental health experts say is critical to letting them open up and talk if they want to.                                              Children are used to teachers giving them affirmation and friends to offload to, so doing something one on one, a walk or a task together might be the opportunity to let them talk.                                                          
  2. MAPPED OUT                                                                                                          Routine is always cited as the most effective way of helping young people feel secure. As much as things are up in the air for us all and the regularities of life, such as school and activities are out, it's hard to think of  Dr Kilbey, a child psychologist recommends trying to implement a "soft" routine because “it’s very calming for a child’s mental health”.                                                          Starting the day and going to bed at the same time, and then having a regular rythmn to the day, like a walk before school starts and everyone sitting down to lunch together etc.                                                           Giving some basic outline and reliability but with leeway to stretch the routine if needs be, so it's not stress-inducing in itself.                  
  3. BREATHE AWAY                                                                                              Turning the para-sympathetic nervous system on over the sympathetic, or fight or flight mechanism, is an automatic way to de-stress and this can be done with simple breathing techniques.                                                                                                          The square breathing method is something I try with my children and they can do alone, simply breathing in through the nose and counting to 5, then breathing out through the mouth, through pursed lips, in ribbons, counting to 5.  Increasing oxygen supply, lowering heart rate and grounding all at once.                                                                                                  
  4. MAKE IT UP                                                                                                            This year the theme for Child's Mental Health awareness week is Expressing Yourself. Creativity of all kinds has been shown to lower anxiety; the process as well as the pride in completing something, from a drawing or a song, to making a recipe for everyone to share are all successful ways to inspire some calm.                 
  5. DRINK UP                                                                                                         The basics are more crucial than ever - staying hydrated, getting exercise, being well-rested and eating a colourful diet - all make a difference to our mood, and children can be noticeably more affected by deficiencies in any of these.                                                                                                              Our award-winning BE SLEEPY was designed to help calm and unwind and has been used by thousands of parents over the last few months. Magnesium has been shown to relax and calm our muscles, Montmorency Cherry which provides a natural melatonin, and L-Theanine which is an anxiolytic—it works to reduce anxiety. Some anxiolytics, such as valerian and hops, have sedative effects. L-theanine, on the other hand, promotes relaxation and stress reduction without sedating.                                           So a warm milk with Be Sleepy, has been a life-saving drink to help decompress, calm and lead to a better night of rest. AS you guys keep telling us:

 

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1 comment

Feb 05, 2021 • Posted by Lesley Lines

Could I have some more information on this product please. My 8yr old daughter has awful anxiety.

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